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Wedding day the 2009 way

by Fiona Halle

Ever heard of a wedding fashion? Of course there is! Just like fashion accessories, dresses updates its yearly ins and outs, wedding trends also changes fashion. It will be good to know whats hot and new for this years wedding trends if youre planning to marry this year. A line-up might freshened your taste and give you a whole new lot of ideas in preparing your wedding day.

Beliefs and practices affects a wedding that is why lifestyle magazines, fashion designers and wedding reception planners merged to create a new and fashionable of getting married in style this 2009!

There are different beliefs and practices when it comes to planning for a wedding ceremony. Lifestyle magazines, fashion designers and even wedding reception experts and planners have fused their ideas together to come up with something new for 2009.

Wedding tokens

Gone were the bells and couple figurines as a gift to friends and guests. What 2009 got is a much advanced way of giving gifts, say a small pot of plant, or even a delicious dessert with a card bearing its recipe.

Brides and grooms have ventured to a much more artistic level and theres no stopping to what you may think of for the designs.

Receptions

Before, brides and grooms prefer a wedding ceremony held at the church but not this year! Although its good, couples may now choose other places to held their wedding day. From the beach to a garden wedding, it will be more practical though to held your reception at the same location to save time and money as well.

This year, environment is the most favored theme for wedding, since the materials used are eco-friendly, and is much romantic than any other else.

Internet is in!

Internet surfing is now widely-used and is one of sources regarding any information that is needed. Eventually, it is also a good provider of tips when planning for your wedding. Internet is handy and a fast way to get ideas so it is advisable to get used surfing the internet.

Above all of these trends and creativity, the styles are going on and on and you might want yourself to be updated every time. But dont let the whole thing get to you, for your touch and personal ideas might come very handy. More importantly, do not be afraid to try new things and experiment its your day youre celebrating.

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Encyclia Cochleata

by Ruby Megan

Encyclia cochleata flower is certainly not typical of an orchid flower although it is typical of its group within the genus and therefore not unusual. Encyclia contains many examples of these `upside down’ flowers, where the lip is seen at the top of the flower and the sepals and petals are held below. These are called nonrespinate flowers, as they do not turn to bring their lip on the lower plane as do most orchids. There is presumably some advantage in this for the pollination of these flowers.

Indeed, this species was discovered very late in the nineteenth century, and was not seen in flower until 1891. To the best of our knowledge it has received little recognition from various authorities by way of awards. Neither has it been touched by the hybridists. The raising of the species from seed has also proved difficult.

They require immediate greenhouse conditions where possible, but will also succeed in a warm, sunny room or sun lounge. They require plenty of light, without strong sunlight, and most have a resting period for part of the winter.

When mature, the club-shaped pseudobulbs topped by two leaves can produce a flower spike which will continue to produce a succession of blooms lasting for twelve months or more. At this stage it becomes perpetually blooming.

These hybrids originated from epiphytic species which inhabited the vast tracts of virgin jungle from central South America. Pleurothallis pubescens has The strange, beetle-like brownish flowers ’sit’ on the surface of the leaf.

As amongst the larger orchids there are those which mimic bees, butterflies and other insects, so in the miniature varieties can be found mimicry of the smaller insects, beetles, ants and so on. The genus Pleurothallis is typical of this. It is a large genus, often overlooked, but fascinating when the beautiful or sometimes bizarre minute flowers are examined.

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Learn Salary Negotiation or Pay the Long Term Costs

by Trevor Davide Grant

The amount of compensation one makes throughout their lifetime career and the subsequent lifestyle and quality of life as a result of that income depends a lot on the amount of salary a person negotiates before their first day on the job.

This might be considered whether it is your first job out of university or if it’s a mid-life job change. Further, there are financial impacts when you are in your career working for an employer that you are very happy with, of not negotiating your salary with the best timing.

Throughout your career, you may earn pay raises and promotions within the company that you work for, but for example, when the company offers scheduled raises, as many companies do, the impact of the starting salary with that company is huge.

This is not only applicable to your first job salary and subsequent scheduled pay increases but also to salary difference you may get when you changes roles within an employer. You may transfer into a career requiring significantly increased effort, more duties, or higher responsibilities, and the salary you had negotitated beforehand can genuinely influence the salary you earn in the new job.

Take for example a person starting a new job as a business analyst in a software company somewhere in the US. Say for example that person begins with a starting salary of $45,000. Most likely that person will have to put in 6 months to a full year before they are offered their first pay increase. Suppose it is a 10% pay raise which would be SIGNIFICANT in many companies. The employee would gain an additional $4500 per year because of that increase.

Suppose that same person started at $55,000 or more. That same pay hike of 10% would provide the same employee $5500 additional salary per year. With the first salary band, the employee would still be under the $50,000 mark after one full year of effort and after a 10% pay increase, while in the second situation the employee would be at over $60,000 a year after a 10% pay increment.

Imagine the compound impact of these two starting salaries on the person’s earning potential. First let’s examine a four year timeline, all other things being equal (that is, assuming no pay raises and no promotions). The employee earning $45,000 will have earned $180K in gross salary in four years. The person earning $55K will have earned $220,000 in 4 years. That is a $40,000 difference just because of where the person started in terms of salary.

Now imagine a 10% raise after the first year and consider the impact as the person advances through their career. The person with a higher salary in the beginning will always be ahead of the person with the lower starting salary, all things being equal (e.g. same title, same job performance). The person with the better salary negotiating will be moving ahead faster than the person starting with the lower salary. This impact amplifies with each subsequent year considering the same percent annual pay raise for each.

When requesting a pay raise, if a person earning $50,000 earns a 5% raise without negotiating anything more, that’s not bad. But consider the impact if the person negotiates a 15% raise because they have outperformed in the job and they have all the supporting research and a track record to warrant it. That employee will have negotiated salary - $7,500 in a raise versus just accepting $2500. Multiply that by 10 years, and there is a $50,000 impact on the person’s earning potential.

Many experts feel it goes without saying that it is better to try negotiating a raise or an improvement to the compensation package than to simply accept what is offered. The first offer is usually the lowest offer and can be improved upon. This negotiation must be done with masterful skills and must be well founded with a supporting case for the increase.

One must also analyze factors such as market, corporate guidelines, and personal performance. However when done well, it can really pay off. Remember to consider the value of all factors of compensation when asking for a raise. Some people truly value free time, their quality of life, while others are willing to take a chance and maybe accept stock options in lieu of pay.

When it comes to negotiating salary, be courageous and consider requesting for more.

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My Best Friends Wedding

I knew it was going to be one of the most difficult things that I had ever agreed to, the day I said I would be maid of honor for my best friend. My first duty as her main attendant was to find a marriage celebrant in Mackay, Queensland. Not an easy task when you live thousands of miles across the ocean.

I did manage to find one though, who suggested to me that beach weddings were very popular there and that we should consider one. I talked to Sadie about it and she agreed that, as long as we had everything planned, the beach would be fine.

I got some brochures from a travel agent regarding the perfect wedding location. She found us a beautiful cove and we both knew right away that it was perfect. We got that all taken care of. There is still plenty to do, but as the time for the trip gets closer and closer, I become a little bit happier that I am doing my part to make this a perfect day for her.

Ready for the Weekend

It seems like this week just didn’t want to end, but the day is finally almost done.  In fact, I don’t know if this has been the longest week of my life, but it has sure seemed like it - I just want to get off of work and finally have a chance to relax.

But that won’t be that easy.  You see, my sister is coming into town this weekend, out from the beauty academy that she is attending and she wants me to take her out tonight.  I couldn’t really say no as I haven’t seen her for about a year and there was going to be a lot of catching up to do.

So, I stopped by the local beauty school on my break to get my hair and makeup done.  I decided against going the really cheap route by going to the hair school down the street and instead went all out at the beauty school instead.

Alright, I should get back to work for these last forty minutes - they won’t be over soon enough. 

I am the Planning Committee

Every two years, we have a rather large family reunion and this year, the planning is up to me and my sister. As everyone takes turns hosting the event, it happened to be our turn. Neither one of us has the room to facilitate that many people, so we decided to look into a camp for rent that would accommodate the whole family.

We got out the yellow pages and did a search on all facilities that we could use to host our extended family. We even went to scope out several of the properties. We were especially impressed with the Broadelm farm and we quickly decided that this was the place for us.

It is comforting to know that it is booked and we have a place for everyone to stay, but we still have so much planning to do to make the reunion a success. We will get it done, I’m sure.

Gifts for a 25th Wedding Anniversary

With the 25th wedding anniversary of my parents on the horizon, my siblings and I have been trying to come up with gift ideas for them.  This will be no small event as it is becoming increasingly rare to see couples make it to the 25th anniversary and still be together.

While we are still undecided on what we should get mom and dad for their anniversary, we have come up with some great ideas for party favors for the guests.  We have decided that all of the men will get a set silver cufflinks to commemorate their attendance at the anniversary.  We have also been able to pick up some engraved cufflinks for the original groomsmen from the wedding.

We will also consider getting some fun gifts as well.  For example, we bought some clip-on neckties to remind the guests of the choice my father made of what tie he wore to his wedding day.

All in all, is looking like it will be a fun event.

The Thought of Losing My Job

The worst thing I ever did at work was lose some very important employment documents. I did not want to tell anyone, as I knew that it could very well cost me my job. I did not know what could have happened to them, other than that I must have filed them somewhere that they didn’t belong.

I decided to look over the HR policies to see if there was any way that I could get out of the bind without being fired, but as I saw it, they had every right to let me go. I stewed over my dilemma all weekend, as I knew that, come Monday, I would have no choice but to go and let my supervisor know what had happened.

She was very understanding and told me that it was not the end of the world. I would have a lot of paperwork to do, as I was going to have to fill out all of the business forms by hand, but I got to keep my job, so there was no complaint from me.

Coed Showers

I first knew that I wanted to go to the same college as my sister when I went there to visit her one weekend. She is two years older than me, so it was exciting for me to have the chance to stay in the dorms with her. I was a little bit nervous about the coed shower cubicles, but she assured me that privacy was respected and it calmed my fears a little bit.

I admit that I really never got out much before and I had never seen electric showers in my life before. It was also a crazy feeling to be around so many college kids that treated me like I was one of them. I fell in love with the people and the campus and I decided that this was where I was going to attend.

When I started my senior year of high school, I talked to my guidance counselor about what classes I should take in order to get the degree that I wanted. He helped me with my application and I just know that I will be accepted. I can’t wait for college life, coed showers and all.

I Had the Time of my Life

I have always wanted to travel in Europe. I have a friend who spends a good part of the year in Italy and Greece and I have always wanted to go with her. It seemed, every time I planned on going, that I was held back by family obligations or a lack of funds.

I decided that I was not going to let anything get in my way of going last winter, as I heard about the great results of my friend getting cosmetic surgery abroad. There was definitely some potential for me, as there is so many things about my appearance that I would like to change.

I booked my tickets and my appointment with the plastic surgeon and I was on my way. The trip meant so much more to me than I can even describe in words. I had the best time of my life and I saw things that I could have only ever dreamed of seeing. It was so great that I plan to go back next year.

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